To Be Accepted In Society

Assalamualaikum and hello readers

Its been a long time since my last post and here i come, my new post. Sorry for other bloggers which i'm unable to revisit. Thanks a lot for those who keep visiting me and maintain my page view. Recently, i'm quite busy. Trying to adapt with my new life: New hostel (i lost once :D) , new roommates, new semester which mean new schedule, new friends, new subjects AND.. new weather. Yeah, time for spring to color the world with beautiful flowers. 

To be accepted in Social, what does it takes actually? 
1. Is it branded clothes? Or high tech gadget? 
2. Walk like model? Have a look like superstar, hot hollywood actress or actor?
3. Sweet nice talk even though deep in your heart, kidney and lung, you want to slap the person? 

Ugh, i see enough of this situation

If you are accepted because of your money, people leaving you when you broke. If beauty attract people to you, you'll be lonely as you grow older. 

We are encourage to talk nicely. It sunnah. However, the most common situation i see, people talk nicely in front of each other but criticizing and talking bad behind. Backstabbing. Backstabber and pretender, you will end up hated by people around you. Instead of selling stories about negative side of someone, be honest to them and let them know their mistakes. 

Yeah, i'm not well accepted in society nor having billion of friends but i'm happy by just being myself. Without have to pretend to other nor being a hypocrite.

My coach used to tell me:

"you don't have to worry about what people think about you, what their perception about you. What matter most, your act didn't hurt yourself and other. Be kind and generous to everyone."

To be concluded, it is not necessary for me to be beautiful fake barbie doll; dress up for hours to look nice; have ideal body shape; using expensive things; hang out at high class cafe and the most important, i don't have to smile to those i want to punch in their faces.